but seriously, i mean i don´t even do bad things and i have to lie a lot
Legit I struggled for years with unnecessary lying as an adult because of how much is grown accustomed to needing to do it as a kid. It’s fucked up man.
Scientifically and psychologically speaking, long periods of physical contact or just closeness stimulate chemicals in the brain that promote trust. If you’ve ever slept while cuddling somebody you just met, you know how incredibly comfortable you feel with them after you wake up, as if you’ve known each other for years. So yes, a long nap together is actually the ideal date if your goal is a relationship based on trust.